Listener: When our family makes some plans, nothing gets according to them. We cannot make plans for future. What is happening?
Nijole V.Wolmer: it is not valid for all people. It is usually hard to embody such plans of ours to which we pay too much attention, when we yearn and wish very much and put too much passion and expectations into a particular wish, while we expect too narrowly. This way we shut our expectation and result from the energy which comes from the surrounding world. I could put it in simple words (though recently people take simple advice with difficulty): “Do not get attached to the result”.
You desire too much, you “get stuck” too much, you bring too much energy to that and your wishes grow heavier. And then the result is opposite. It is so that a person sticks to the result, for this reason, changes, that are constantly taking place in the world, cannot come to your wishes, thus, your plans fall. Try to have your intention and wish easier – do not get attached to them. Have you noticed that when you think easily of some intentions, they immediately get realized? If you do things with easiness and without attachment, then it is easier to embody them. Too much desire, too mush wish, too much importance and then everything goes opposite.
